hi Randy,
this depends a little on your setup, but most likely you have a client/server setup (i.e. server config has 'server xx.yy' in it.
In that case you want to do client-side routing to the server-side. This is covered a little in the OpenVPN HOWTO part "expanding the scope":
http://openvpn.net/index.php/open-source/documentation/howto.html#scope
what you'd want to do is set up a client config file (aka CCD file on the server) to tell openvpn that the your home LAN can be found "behind" your opevnpn client.
As an alternative, if your openvpn client is running linux/bsd then you could use some smart iptables/pf portforwarding rule to forward ONLY traffic from and to <home-lan-mail-server>:<port>