Thank you for the link, very interesting article. That article explains what I am experiencing.
When I try and cp/mv large files around using the "Shared folders" across the tunnel, the computer doing the transfer loses (drops) it connection, but the vpn tunnel remains up.
I hope you understand what I'm trying to say(?)
Back to my problem, do I need to set a lower MTU on the tun0 device at each end of the site-to-site tunnel, or at each XP machine behind each vpn server, or perhaps at each of the routers that sit in front of each vpn machine.
This is what it looks like:
site-to-site vpn setup.
5-XP boxes -> vpn svr-> router/gw--->internet---> router/gw --> vpn svr -->win2003 server-->shared folder.
I will look at testing the mtu setting with tcpdump soon.
Thanks.