Thanks for the ideas.
I tried changing to TCP and it won't connect at all... maybe some server-side config setting is not allowing that.
I'm going to try with another client later on.
It actually looks like the OpenVPN connection is not completely shutting down my connection... with it connected I still get a few packets through (like maybe one in every 20 pings goes through with a really long round trip).
Below I'm pasting my routing table with and without OpenVPN connected. The remote server (my home LAN) is the 192.168.1.x network - the network I'm on right now is 192.168.2.x. Should the remote network have a lower metric than my local network? There aren't many options on the Asus OpenVPN Server config page, but I definitely told it NOT to route internet traffic through the VPN.
OPENVPN NOT CONNECTED:
IPv4 Route Table
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Active Routes:
Network Destination Netmask Gateway Interface Metric
0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 192.168.2.1 192.168.2.16 35
127.0.0.0 255.0.0.0 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
127.0.0.1 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
127.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
192.168.2.0 255.255.255.0 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
192.168.2.16 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
192.168.2.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
224.0.0.0 240.0.0.0 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
224.0.0.0 240.0.0.0 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
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OPENVPN CONNECTED:
IPv4 Route Table
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Active Routes:
Network Destination Netmask Gateway Interface Metric
0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 192.168.2.1 192.168.2.16 35
0.0.0.0 0.0.0.0 192.168.1.1 192.168.1.74 25
127.0.0.0 255.0.0.0 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
127.0.0.1 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
127.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
192.168.1.0 255.255.255.0 On-link 192.168.1.74 281
192.168.1.74 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.1.74 281
192.168.1.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.1.74 281
192.168.2.0 255.255.255.0 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
192.168.2.16 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
192.168.2.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
224.0.0.0 240.0.0.0 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
224.0.0.0 240.0.0.0 On-link 192.168.1.74 281
224.0.0.0 240.0.0.0 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 127.0.0.1 331
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.1.74 281
255.255.255.255 255.255.255.255 On-link 192.168.2.16 291
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