Hello chgill,
It is known that these programs that come with laptops that are intended to make connections 'smarter' can cause problems with VPN connections. For example this automatic switching from WLAN to LAN only when a LAN connection is detected is a typical problem case. When the OpenVPN connection goes online it triggers such 'smart' software to turn off WLAN, assuming that the VPN connection is now your LAN connection to the Internet. Which it is not.
You are currently on the public community forums where other users of OpenVPN can assist each other.
If you want the OpenVPN Inc. company support channel, try
https://openvpn.net/support
But regarding your problem... this really seems like a problem with software on your laptop that's interfering with your connections. If possible try to disable or remove that, and see if that solves the problem. In many cases it does.
Kind regards,
Johan