Centrino wrote
I would like to connect a single iOS device to my (Windows Home edition) VPN server
Read the howto, again ..
Then Install Virtual Box and learn to use Linux.
Or, one of these may help.
https://forums.openvpn.net/viewforum.php?f=7
Read bebop's posts.
If all else fails then I am available for hire: tincantech at protonmail dot com
And I'm not even expensive ..