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client log file without --verb 4
2021-02-20 14:32:58 TLS Error: TLS key negotiation failed to occur within 60 seconds (check your network connectivity)
2021-02-20 14:32:58 TLS Error: TLS handshake failed
2021-02-20 14:32:58 SIGUSR1[soft,tls-error] received, process restarting
client configuration file with ip address and DNS name removed
dev tun
persist-tun
persist-key
cipher AES-256-CBC
auth SHA1
tls-client
client
resolv-retry infinite
remote _________ 1194 udp
lport 0
verify-x509-name "__________" name
pkcs12 nl1-UDP4-1194-0ouVRE.p12
tls-auth nl1-UDP4-1194-0ouVRE-tls.key 1
remote-cert-tls server
comp-lzo adaptive
client log file with --verb 4
2021-02-20 14:41:20 us=714932 MANAGEMENT: >STATE:1613832080,WAIT,,,,,,
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 TLS Error: TLS key negotiation failed to occur within 60 seconds (check your network connectivity)
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 TLS Error: TLS handshake failed
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 TCP/UDP: Closing socket
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 SIGUSR1[soft,tls-error] received, process restarting
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 MANAGEMENT: >STATE:1613832140,RECONNECTING,tls-error,,,,,
2021-02-20 14:42:20 us=331894 Restart pause, 5 second(s)
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388039 Re-using SSL/TLS context
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388039 Outgoing Control Channel Authentication: Using 160 bit message hash 'SHA1' for HMAC authentication
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388039 Incoming Control Channel Authentication: Using 160 bit message hash 'SHA1' for HMAC authentication
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388039 LZO compression initializing
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 Control Channel MTU parms [ L:1622 D:1184 EF:66 EB:0 ET:0 EL:3 ]
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 Data Channel MTU parms [ L:1622 D:1450 EF:122 EB:406 ET:0 EL:3 ]
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 Local Options String (VER=V4): 'V4,dev-type tun,link-mtu 1558,tun-mtu 1500,proto UDPv4,comp-lzo,keydir 1,cipher AES-256-CBC,auth SHA1,keysize 256,tls-auth,key-method 2,tls-client'
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 Expected Remote Options String (VER=V4): 'V4,dev-type tun,link-mtu 1558,tun-mtu 1500,proto UDPv4,comp-lzo,keydir 0,cipher AES-256-CBC,auth SHA1,keysize 256,tls-auth,key-method 2,tls-server'
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 TCP/UDP: Preserving recently used remote address: [AF_INET]94.23.149.146:1194
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 Socket Buffers: R=[65536->65536] S=[65536->65536]
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 UDP link local (bound): [AF_INET][undef]:0
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 UDP link remote: [AF_INET]94.23.149.146:1194
2021-02-20 14:42:25 us=388727 MANAGEMENT: >STATE:1613832145,WAIT,,,,,,
2021-02-20 14:42:32 us=443094 TCP/UDP: Closing socket
2021-02-20 14:42:32 us=443094 SIGTERM[hard,] received, process exiting
2021-02-20 14:42:32 us=443094 MANAGEMENT: >STATE:1613832152,EXITING,SIGTERM,,,,,