zefox wrote
I must be dumb but I'm sick of semi-answers gathered in some other places that don't help
Maybe you asked in the wrong places.
Good answer 😉
zefox wrote
how do I setup OpenVPN to have a permanent resilient bidirectional tunnel between both sites, where everyone in 192.168.2.x can see everyone in 192.168.3.x and vice-versa
See above.
zefox wrote
with no limitation at all?
When you ask such a question you give yourself away ..
There is no such thing as no limitations when it comes to networking.
zefox wrote
that does sound a lot to what I used to tell Unix/Linux beginners: "man man"
A
seasoned professional like yourself should have no difficulty understanding the howto.