This is the correct board for your question:
You want to know how to route :
- from your private VPN - as a Server
to a commercial VPN provider's VPN - as a client
This is a problem because the commercial VPN will redirect your default gateway
which breaks routing for your private VPN server.
It is a common problem but I do not know of a solution ..
It is not something that openvpn has provision for via openvpn configuration.
Perhaps somebody else here knows a solution but I have not seen one on this forum.