My suggestion was for you to check
all the equipment you are responsible for ...
However, while I accept that your situation with government and ISP is difficult, it is possible to determine some details of how the VPN is broken, if by packet filtering.
For example (this is a simple test .. not conclusive):
Ping the server directly by real IP (not VPN) and leave it running indefinitely, log the results to a file. With a simple script you can add some 'random' breaks to the ping and time stamps to the log.
Then use your VPN; Even if you redirect your gateway the ping should continue to ping the server directly.
When the VPN goes down, check to see if the ping still replies.
If the ping is replied this would
suggest that the VPN packets are being dropped some where.
You could also use traceroute (Linux) to give you an indication of where the UDP packets are being dropped ..
You could also setup the same in reverse: Server to client.
You can take detailed logs to your ISP and ask for clarification .. though I doubt they would be much help. Even in the UK ISPs are quite unhelpful until you prove absolutely that they are doing something wrong ... even then they tend to shy away from it and blame somebody else.
On the other hand .. if the pings are also filtered out then
either it would
suggest that they block you completely from your VPN server for a period of time .. or there is a real network problem .. as you suggest:
ISP support swears that they filter nothing and that may be their uplink does.
As for this:
Raegdan wrotewhat advices can you give me about bypassing the UDP filtering, or making the tunnel stable at conditions of high packet loss, or increasing the speed working over TCP? I will appreciate any help and will be thankful of any advice.
Who ever owns the network has absolute control of it and there is nothing you can do about it .. Except reject your government .. do you even get to Vote ?
There is a 'obfuscation' patch for OpenVPN that I have never tried .. but you could.
https://forums.openvpn.net/topic12605.html
Perhaps somebody else on this forum can help ..