Again, very dear 'abderrahman' thanks a lot for helping :-)
The config you posted is the client config (it's what I need to see), the server config is your provider's side and you don't see it. Just wanted to correct the terminology
he he ! thank you so much to 'light up' my so bad ignorance in that domain !!!!
I of course didn't mean my provider config, that is at least somthg i know ! What i meant is the config of the vpn client server, i might be wrong indeed but a vpn is a 'tunnel', ok, but isn't it a server we connect to between my provider network and all other destination i want to connect to ? (well, kind of hard for me to talk about that in right appropriates terms !!)
With EtherApe I can have a look of the network and it is very interesting and funny even if I don't understand everything I see !!
and, the beginning of my conf file starts with :
Sample client-side OpenVPN 2.0 config file #
# for connecting to multi-client server
'client server', which is a server, no ?
(well, end of bracket !)
So
1) I'm very afraid to upgrade my openvpn version, till now it caused me lots of crash troubles, and finally updating initramfs-tools resolved the openvpn crashes.
2) (i'm only using synaptics, hate this softw center hours to load and all its advertising), and in synaptic don't have any upgrade version of openvpn, only the 2.2.1
So, as it is not proposed in synaptic, i'm afraid it won't be absolutely compatible with my 12.04 version of ubuntu.
3) I absolutely don't want to upgrade my Ubuntu, I yes have several years before it'll be obsolete, Lts = long term support, this long term for 12.04 is 5 years, and it came out in 2012, the 12.01 version is only supported for 18 mth (and 13.xx I think).
And really, I got so many troubles in the beginning of the install, incompatibilities pb with my asus, it took me a while to fix everything, graphical card drivers, video acceleration, etc...
So now that everthing is perfectly stable, I won't take a chance to risk it !
And before installing 12.04 I first tried to install 12.10 which was worse.
So now I just have this 'little' issue with this vpn disconnection, and it worth to fix it.
I'm using Hma cause it seemed to be easy, and was a little lazy to look for a better solution.
I have since a long time a dual boot with Windows 7, and I had before experienced Hma which was so easy and well working under Windows.
Actually till now i didn't think about security risks, and when I looked at the log today i also thought about the security factor.
I'm now in France and we have here troubles with hadopi 'big brother' watching illegal downloads, and when I'm not in France I need a vpn to be able to watch french tv or usa tv !! (well for usa i use ultasurf proxy with wine but vpn is a more complete solution).
so the good thing with Hma is that they propose multiple countries ip, and have very good bandwidth.
And, vpn network manager doesn't work, well I tried, and open port in the router, but still have a lake of knowledge with vpn pptb protocol to make it work.
Do you think it would be better to use network-manager ? but with Hma it won't change the lake of security, right ?
And I have to confess that this Gopenvpn gui is so so convenient !!
So despite not advertising, could you may be advise me a good vpn client safer to use ?
Otherwise, what does "ping-exit 30" means ? what does it mean "I will stay protected even when the connection is idle" ?
And what does also mean "route-metric 1" ?
very sorry to bother you but I really like to understand a bit what i'm doing, so it also gives me a chance to learn :-)
Again and again : Thanks a looooooooootttttttttt !!