the .9 address is normal; read more about it here:
http://openvpn.net/index.php/open-source/documentation/howto.html#policy
the Openvpn server address is still at .1 - if you cannot ping that after the VPN comes up (without further warnings) then you most likely have a firewalling issue.
if you can ping the VPN server but not the client (from the server) then check if the tap-win32 adapter is public or private - windows vista/7 does not allow ping traffic to public (untrusted) adapters.